Ying Pei’an

Ying Pei'an's "Appreciating Yourself" is an article expressing self appreciation and personal achievement. The author acknowledges that there are many areas where they are inferior to others, but also knows that they are not always so bad. When he discovers that what he has done or written is not bad, he will feel very happy, and even more relaxed when praised. The author believes that being able to appreciate oneself is the foundation of being dedicated and happy. If a person always feels that they are not capable, they cannot have the confidence to continue. 欣赏自己 ◎ 英培安 不怕直说，我是相当欣赏自己的。我承认自己有许多不如人的地方，但也知道并不老是这样差劲。所以，我做了一件事，写了一篇文章，只要自觉还不错(1)我可以乐上几天，遇有人赞，更飘飘然得不像话；甚至还会忘其所以，插上几句自夸的话。 真的，我一点也不谦虚。 或者这就是自负吧，恐怕要给人骂了。但有什么不对呢？(2) 我也欣赏别人，凡是好的东西我都欣赏。只懂得欣赏别人而忘了欣赏自己，岂不是太不公平了？ 但是，我们华人总是比较谦虚，而且引以为荣。自己的太太叫拙荆，文章曰拙作。如果你当真叫他的太太山芭婆，文章如狗屁，他保证勃然大怒，和你拍桌子绝交(3)。其实，你所说的，和他说的，可能并没什么两样。 我以为，如果你的东西确是好的，直接说它好，没有什么不对。老王卖瓜(4)，只要卖的是好瓜，为什么不能自卖自夸？ 老兄，老王是靠卖瓜吃饭的，叫他也学我们书生扭扭捏捏，对自己的瓜谦虚一番，生意还用做么？(5)他保证饿死大吉。 能欣赏自己，才能敬业乐业，写文章的人，若老是觉得自己的文章不行，我不相信他有信心涂下去。 卖文的，更不必说了。 On Self-Appreciation ◎ Ying Pei'an Frankly，I very much appreciate myself．Yes，I admit I'm in many respects not as good as other people，but I don't think I'm always no good．When I find what I've done or written is okay，I'll remain pleased with myself for quite a few days，and，in case I receive praise for it，I'll even become so swollen-headed as to add a few words to glorify myself. True，I'm not modest at all. People may call me conceited．But I think otherwise. I also appreciate other people．I appreciate anything good．Isn't it unfair to forget appreciating myself while…