所以曹操不是不要名人，而且是很欢迎名人，但是曹操心里很清楚，这些名人不一定能够帮忙。曹操的态度很简单，你来帮忙固然好，帮腔也不错，帮凶也可以，实在不行，帮闲也行，帮闲我也要；我也不指望你们这些人能够实实在在地给我做什么事，我也不指望你们这些人真心诚意地拥护我，只要你们能够来，你们来给我装点门面，你们不公开跟我作对，就可以了。曹操是不迷信名人的，曹操也是不重虚名的，曹操的名言就是“不得务虚名而处实祸”，就是曹操更看重的是实在的内容，他是很务实的一个人。
So Cao Cao doesn’t want celebrities, and he welcomes them very much. But Cao Cao is very clear in his heart that these celebrities may not be able to help. Cao Cao’s attitude is very simple. It’s good for you to come and help, but it’s also good for your tone, and it’s also good for your accomplices. It’s really not good, but it’s also good for me to help, and I want it too; “I don’t expect you people to actually do anything for me, nor do I expect you people to sincerely support me. As long as you can come, you can come and decorate my appearance, and you don’t openly oppose me, it’s all right.”. “Cao Cao is not superstitious about celebrities, and he also does not value false fame. Cao Cao’s famous saying is” Don’t be responsible for false fame and deal with real disasters. “That is, Cao Cao values more real content, and he is a very pragmatic person.”.
甚至他的婚姻都是很务实的，他的第一任夫人，就是我们曾经讲过的丁夫人，丁夫人和他离异以后，曹操就让他的妾卞氏做了夫人，那就是卞夫人，卞夫人出身是不好的，出身倡家。倡就是倡伎，那是单人旁的，倡伎两个字都是单人旁的，这个倡伎在那个时候主要是献艺，一般情况下是艺妓，卖艺不卖身的，但是这个卖艺和卖身之间在当时也没有什么严格的这个界限，所以这个单人旁的倡伎很容易转换为女子旁的那个娼妓。那么这样的一个出身在当时不但是卑微，而且是卑贱，按照一个讲究门第出身的这么一个规矩，那是不能够做夫人的。曹操不管，因为卞氏非常的好，出身虽差，人品极好，做人非常地低调，她也给曹操生了好儿子，草丕是她生的，曹植也是她生的，后来草丕被立为太子，卞夫人手下的人开玩笑说夫人啊，你看大公子都做太子了，你得请客啊，开玩笑了，卞夫人说什么呢？唉，我没有把孩子教坏，就不错了，我已经很心满意足了，我哪里还敢居什么功劳啊！曹操外出打仗的时候总是会缴获一些珠宝、珍宝、古玩、首饰这样一些东西，他带回家以后曹操会把这些东西先交给卞夫人去挑选，因为她是夫人，正妻嘛，每次卞夫人都挑一个中等水平的，首饰、珠宝这类。曹操就奇怪，就问她，说我经过观察发现，你每次不挑最好的，也不挑最差的，你都挑个中等的，什么原因呢？卞夫人说，挑最好的那叫贪婪，挑最差的那叫虚伪，我挑中等的。这是非常实在的一种说法，所以曹操很欣赏她。
Even his marriage was very pragmatic. His first wife was Mrs. Ding, as we talked about before. After Mrs. Ding divorced him, Cao Cao made his concubine, Bian, become his wife. That was Mrs. Bian. Mrs. Bian’s birth was not good, and she was an advocate. “Advocacy” refers to advocating martial arts, which refers to “solo”, and both the words “solo” refer to “solo”. At that time, this advocating martial arts was mainly about performing arts. Generally, it was a geisha, but there was no strict boundary between performing arts and selling oneself at that time, so it was easy to convert this solo advocating martial arts to the prostitute next to the woman. “Then such a family background was not only humble at the time, but also humble. According to a rule that emphasizes family background, it is not possible to be a wife.”. Cao Cao didn’t care, because Bian’s family was very good, with a poor background, excellent character, and a very low-key demeanor. She also gave birth to a good son for Cao Cao. Cao Pi was born to her, and Cao Zhi was also born to her. Later, Cao Pi was made crown prince. The people under Mrs. Bian joked and said, “Madam, you see, the eldest son is already the crown prince. You have to treat him. Are you kidding? What did Mrs. Bian say?”? Alas, it’s good that I didn’t teach the child bad. I’m already very satisfied. How dare I take any credit for it! When Cao Cao goes out to fight, he always seizes some jewelry, treasures, antiques, jewelry, and other things. When he takes them home, Cao Cao will first hand them over to Mrs. Bian to choose, because she is the wife and the wife. Every time, Mrs. Bian chooses a medium level item, such as headgear, jewelry, and so on. Cao Cao was curious, so he asked her, ‘After observation, I found that every time you don’t choose the best or the worst, you always choose the medium. What’s the reason?’? Madam Bian said, “Choosing the best is called greed, choosing the worst is called hypocrisy, and I choose the medium.”. This is a very real statement, so Cao Cao appreciated her very much.
曹操是这样的一个人，所以他在处理人才的问题上他的态度就是名至实归、更重实际。
曹操的用人政策二：德才兼备唯才是举
Cao Cao is such a person, so his attitude towards dealing with talent issues is to focus on fame, reality, and practicality.
Cao Cao’s Employment Policy II: Have Both Morality and Ability, Only Employing Talents
