那么袁绍也不死心，这个事情袁绍也跟曹操至少说了两次，第二次袁绍请曹操喝酒，从口袋里掏出一个印来，一个玉的印，这个在古代叫什么？叫玺，是皇帝用的。给曹操看，你看，我有这个了。我估计这个印是袁绍私刻的，他不可能把皇帝的玉玺真正弄到手。你看，我有这个，怎么样，哥们儿，一块儿干吧，因为这个时候袁绍还是把曹操当做当年和他一起去偷新娘子的那个发小。曹操想，哼，你以为偷国家跟头新娘子一样啊。但是你既然还把我当做偷新娘子的儿时伙伴，曹操就咯咯笑，我不听你的，我就不听你的，我就不听你的。实际上此刻曹操内心深处已动了杀机，他认为袁绍这个人是窃国大盗，是国贼，必须予以消灭！所以可以肯定的是，曹操就在这一刻把袁绍列入了他必须予以消灭的黑名单。
So Yuan Shao didn’t give up. Yuan Shao also told Cao Cao about this matter at least twice. The second time, Yuan Shao invited Cao Cao to drink, and took out a seal from his pocket, a jade seal. What was this called in ancient times? It is called a seal and used by the emperor. Show it to Cao Cao. Look, I have this. “I estimate that this seal was personally engraved by Yuan Shao, who could not have truly obtained the emperor’s jade seal.”. You see, I have this, how about it, buddy, let’s work together, because at this time Yuan Shao still regards Cao Cao as the hairpin who stole the bride with him. Cao Cao thought, “Hmm, you think stealing the country is like stealing a bride.”. “But since you still treat me as a childhood partner stealing the bride, Cao Cao chuckled. If I don’t listen to you, I won’t listen to you, and I won’t listen to you.”. In fact, at this moment, Cao Cao’s heart had already moved to kill him. He believed that Yuan Shao was a great thief and a national thief, and he must be eliminated! So it is certain that Cao Cao put Yuan Shao on the blacklist that he must eliminate at this moment.
这个事情袁绍也和他的弟弟袁术商量过，袁术也不赞成。袁术为什么不赞成呢？因为袁术瞧不起他的哥哥袁绍，袁绍和袁术两个都是袁逢的儿子，袁绍年长是哥哥，袁术年幼是弟弟，但是袁绍是庶出，袁术是嫡出。嫡出是什么意思呢，就是正妻所生。我们平时都说中国古代的婚姻制度是一夫多妻制，这是不对的，我现在郑重地告诉大家，中国古代的婚姻制度是一夫一妻多妾制，就是妻是只能是一个的，妾可以有很多，甚至还可以有那些连妾都不算的、又有妾的事实的叫做通房丫头，就是婢女。我们去读《红楼梦》大家都可以很清楚这个制度，这个通房丫头办了手续可以升为妾，比方说赵姨娘，她是办了手续的，她就是妾了；平儿就是通房丫头，比妾还底一等。那么袁术想他是小老婆养的，虽然是我哥，他不认。而且袁绍虽然可能是婢女所生，按照袁术骂他的话，说他是什么我们家奴才的种子，可能是婢女生的，但是素质、人缘、水平确实比袁术好。这个袁术就更嫉恨他哥哥了，非得跟他哥哥拼个你死我活不可。
Yuan Shao also discussed this matter with his younger brother Yuan Shu, who also disagreed. Why does Yuan Shu disapprove? Because Yuan Shu despises his brother Yuan Shao, both of whom are the sons of Yuan Feng. Yuan Shao is an older brother and Yuan Shu is a younger brother, but Yuan Shao is a commoner and Yuan Shu is a legitimate descendant. What does it mean to be born by a legitimate wife. We usually say that the ancient Chinese marriage system was polygamous, which is incorrect. I solemnly tell you now that the ancient Chinese marriage system was monogamous and multiple concubines, that is, there can only be one wife, and there can be many concubines, and even those who do not even count as concubines and have concubines are called maidservants. “When we read” A Dream of Red Mansions, “everyone can be very clear about this system. This housekeeper can be promoted to a concubine after going through the formalities, such as Aunt Zhao, who has gone through the formalities and is now a concubine.”; Ping’er is a housemaid, who is inferior to my concubine. So Yuan Shu thinks he was raised by his younger wife. Although he is my brother, he doesn’t recognize him. Moreover, although Yuan Shao may have been born to a female servant, according to Yuan Shu’s scolding words, saying that he was the seed of a slave in our family, he may have been born to a female servant, but his quality, popularity, and level are indeed better than Yuan Shu’s. This Yuan Shu is even more jealous of his brother, and he has to fight his brother to the death.
其实袁术用不着瞧不起袁绍，他们这哥俩半斤八两，共同的特点是出身高贵，自命不凡，愚蠢透顶。而且他们的愚蠢是跟他们的狂妄成正比的，袁绍比曹操狂妄，也比曹操愚蠢；袁术比袁绍狂妄，也比袁绍愚蠢；一个比一个牛，一个比一个蠢。当时袁术接到袁绍要另立刘虞为帝的信以后，就在肚子里面冷笑，哼，真不愧是小老婆养的，想出这么个馊主意，另立皇帝，你立自个儿啊！怎么这么没出息啊，这个小老婆生的就是没出息，是不是，你想想我们老袁家“四世三公”，你再弄个皇帝出来你了不起就是“五世三公”嘛，你不还就是个“公”吗！但是袁术他话不能这么说，他回封信表现得大义凛然说：我只知道消灭董卓，不知道别的。
In fact, Yuan Shu doesn’t need to look down on Yuan Shao. They are two brothers who are half equal. Their common characteristics are noble origin, pretentiousness, and utter stupidity. Moreover, their stupidity is directly proportional to their arrogance. Yuan Shao is more arrogant and foolish than Cao Cao; Yuan Shu is more arrogant and foolish than Yuan Shao; One is more stupid than the other. At that time, after receiving a letter from Yuan Shao proposing to establish another Liu Yu as emperor, Yuan Shu sneered in his stomach and said, “Hmm, I really deserve to be raised by my little wife. I came up with such a bad idea, to establish another emperor, you should establish yourself!”! Why are you so unproductive? This little wife gave birth to nothing, right? Think of our old Yuan family’s “Four Generations and Three Gongs”. If you get an emperor to come out, you’re really “Five Generations and Three Gongs”. Aren’t you still a “Gongs”! “But Yuan Shu couldn’t say that. He replied with a solemn expression of righteousness and said, ‘I only know to eliminate Dong Zhuo, I don’t know anything else.'”.
